I grew up in Houston where there are two seasons: 1. Hot + Humid, and 2. Less Hot + Humid. It wasn’t until after we moved to Arkansas that I experienced seasonal beauty firsthand and understood the rhythm of four unique, God-created seasons.
Seasons give us permission to change our pace instead of plowing ahead at the same speed every day of the year. I accept summer as God’s invitation to modify and adjust my schedule, to allow myself space to breathe, and to slow down and try something new.
I’m making small tweaks and subtle shifts this summer. Some are practical and some are philosophical, and I’m inviting you to make them with me.
I’m slowing down my pace.
Please note that I did not say “quitting” or “now my pace is slow.” I’m simply moving away from feeling rushed and driven about the tasks to be done, posts to write, and places to go.
My heart feels a pull to rest, to quit pushing, to stop hustling.
My tweak is to do less and be okay with it. For example, I’ll post less on social media—not a major overhaul but a pace-altering adjustment. I’ll work out one less day a week simply because I need the mental break of solving logistical issues with watching the girls. These tweaks ensure that I’m not always pushing but still doing.
What tiny tweaks can you make to relax just a bit more this summer while still doing what needs to get done?
I’m getting rid of my cluttered inbox and notifications.
There’s something stressful about copious amounts of email flooding my inbox and notification badges popping up. It’s like, “Hey Jill, come check me. There may be something important here!”
My brain needs a time-out from constantly processing and sifting through unnecessary electronic junk. My mind needs a break from the little red circles on my apps.
My tweak is to unsubscribe from mailing lists, turn off notifications, and delete messages. I’m releasing the mental weight of carrying around electronic baggage so I can focus on the people in front of me.
What can you do to lessen your electronic baggage?
I’m less concerned about keeping our girls busy and more concerned about being intentional with their time.
When I look at the calendar, I see the number of summers remaining until our oldest leaves for college dwindling. I want us to live wisely in the time we have.
My body needs a break from unintentional movement.
My tweak is to be more intentional about our activities. Our intention is to expose the girls to people, experiences, and lessons that will allow them to know God and love others, have conversations that carry weight, care for their bodies, grow their brains, and knit Team McCormick closer together…and have fun!
Going to the pool is about fun and physical activity, not just escaping the sisterly fights. Doing chores is about teaching responsibility, not just keeping them busy. Trekking to the library isn’t about killing time but about building their brains. I’m not revamping our summer, I’ve simply spent some time defining why we’re doing what we’re doing.
In what areas do you need to practice intentionality? Do your summer activities align with your values?
I’m changing up what I’m reading.
Because I write for you, my fellow Achiever, I want to make sure that what I’m saying is supported by more than just my own thoughts, feelings, biases, and preferences. This causes me to read some pretty heavy and heady books.
My spirit needs a break from the heaviness.
My tweak is to integrate fiction and memoir. There are great stories and characters and places yet to be discovered. I want to laugh, to dive into different worlds, and to be inspired by the lives of others. (Tell me your favorite fictional book/memoir in the comments section please!)
Do you need to shake up the genre you’re reading or lighten the heaviness in another area?
I’m allowing the season to affect our senses.
I’m shaking up what we listen to, eat, and smell. In our pace and in our home, the coming of a new season should impact our senses.
My surroundings are due for a change.
My tweak is to add new music, more sweet treats, and new scents to our home. If you pull up next to us this summer, you’re more likely to hear the Beach Boys or Pandora’s “Everything is Awesome” radio blaring from our minivan. I’ll be more likely to indulge in an ice cream sandwich (you thought I was going to say I’ll eat more fruit…Ha!) Our home will smell less like vanilla + cinnamon and more like the seaside or lemonade. God gave us senses, and they’re not designed for the same input every day.
What in your daily life needs a shake up? What foods, scents, or sounds need a make-over?
Even when our physical seasons don’t change much, like Hot + Humid Houston, we can still accept the commencement of a new season to inspire us to change in small, subtle ways. We can pay attention to what our hearts, brains, and bodies are telling us and then make adjustments. We have permission to tweak ourselves into the best summer yet…are you with me?
Thx for sharing what I try to do each summer! After a heavy year studying in BSF, I always choose light fictional books for summer. (Feeling a little guilty at first!). I still spend time in the Lords Word on my patio as I drink in the sweetness of each morning. Then spend the days with my 5-yo granddaughter at the pool or crafting and teaching her new games. God has blessed us greatly and it’s ok to stop and smell the roses! Thank you Jill!
Mary Beth
Mary Beth, that sounds fabulous! I do BSF each year too and it feels so great to do a different study for the summer and read some light fiction! No guilt, all good. – jill
I read and really enjoyed the Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrow. It starts off as letters between various characters, but then switches to “normal” narrative part way through.
Eileen, I will have to check that out. I’ve read three WWII books in a row and this girl needs a break! – jill
Great list! I love the idea of being intentional with how we spend our time and activities. We are focusing on that this summer as well. I cut the number of swim lessons; enrolled in VBS so I can have a week to be productive at home while she grows in fellowship; I only said yes to a half-hour speaking engagement but not leading a small group; and the library summer reading program is for her enrichment, not to make ourselves crazy tracking books for a prize. I am being okay with lounging on the porch swing, a little tv, and frozen yogurt just because. But also going through closets and papers to weed out the things that bring on stress. I like how you said that every movement has intention.
Janette, those are such good things. I love how you’re saying “no” and “yes.” It’s always great to have some of both in our lives, right? – jill
Thank you Jill, these are great reminders. I felt my body relaxing just reading this post. My favorite is the first one “to quit pushing, to stop hustling.” It just becomes automatic after awhile and you never stop to look around, or just relax.
I’ve been reading 1 fictional book a month, and I’m loving it. A few of my recommendations are “The One in a Million Boy,” by Monica Wood; “The Couple Next Door,” by Shari LaPena; “All the Ugly and Wonderful Things,” by Bryn Greenwood. Happy Summer!
Wendy so glad that you relaxed just hearing those things! I will have to check out the books you mentioned. I’m on the hunt for some good summer reads! – jill
This was fantastic, Jill! Thank you so much for sharing these ideas. I agree with you 100% about being intentional and not just busy for busyness sake! Love your words, my dear!
Erika, thank you so much sweet friend. It was so interesting to take what we do and right it down. Keep enjoying your great and intentional summer. – jill
This is wonderful! So happy for you as you slow down and soak in the sun! 🙂
Alexis, I hope that you’re getting a chance to slow down just a bit as well! – jill
Amazing ideas for the summer. The les intense schedule had been good and bad for me. I’d like to incorporate some of these into my daily routine.
Brittany, these are just tiny little things that are making a big difference in my stress level. Enjoy a bit of a slower pace this season. – jill
I really like tweak #2 Cleaning up email clutter. My favorite is “changing up what you are reading.” I enjoy getting lost in a piece of fiction, but I need to read more non-fiction. Great ideas.
Denise, yes! The email clutter drives me bonkers! I find something new to unsubscribe from every day! – jill