It was in college that I first heard the Socratic quote, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” That seemed pretty extreme to me then, but now, as I’ve aged, I believe that an examined life is a biblical life. In January, I set aside time to think through the month, the highs and lows, to […]
How to take thoughts captive when they don’t want to be caught
I was done. The girls were bickering relentlessly, and my response was not to use this as a teachable moment or to pray. Instead, I threw my hands in the air and blasted, “Mommy is cranky. I’m hot and tired. And I need you to leave.” This was all true, but it wasn’t handled with […]
Discouragement’s three painful truths I’d like to ignore
This is the final post in a three-part series about discouragement. I’m taking you on my journey of how I’ve moved past finding my worth in my work, and what the gift of discouragement can teach us. What possessed us to do this, I will never know. One Saturday when Ryan and I were bored, […]
The high cost of being low maintenance
It was Prom 1994. Rebecca, Amanda, Jess, and I decided that the girls would get ready at Rebecca’s house, but that’s not what I did. I got ready at my house so I could help the others get ready. Prom was amazing and wonderful. But looking back, I wonder why my first thought was to […]
How unmet expectations are actually a gift
This is the second post in a three-part series about discouragement. I’m taking you on my journey of how I’ve moved past finding my worth in my work, and what the gift of discouragement can teach us. I was livid. Halfway through my sophomore year at Texas A&M, I was earning a B in English. […]
Drop this habit for better friendships
My husband calls me “The Interrogator,” but let me back up and tell you why. My curious nature started in fourth-grade, when my class would groan when I raised my hand because I never had just one question. In college, I decided to major in journalism, so my curiosity was acceptable—asking questions was a way […]
The trouble with finding our worth in our work
This is the first post in a three-part series about discouragement. I’m taking you on my journey of how I’ve moved past finding my worth in my work, and what the gift of discouragement can teach us. The other day, I went to brunch with two of my good friends, Jan and Jennifer. It made […]
Two reasons I’m scared to go all in
At my alma mater Texas A&M, a university with a heritage of upholding traditions and honoring service to others, the worst insult you can hear is, “you’re such a 2-percenter.” It means that you don’t give back to campus life or tradition or give 100%. For an Aggie, this is the ultimate insult. My Aggie experience […]
How to give yourself grace when you try something new
Six years ago, we moved from a small town in Arkansas to a metropolitan Texas city that I hadn’t lived in since I was 3. I didn’t know how to get anywhere. I had to Google the location of Starbucks… and the drycleaners… and my dentist’s office. My familiarity with Arkansas roads was zero help […]
Six resources to help you assess you
Hello Achievers! Listed below are six resources to help you assess you, your life and your day to get a firm grip on what makes you tick, how to best to spend your time and live out your design. I’ve personally tried four of these, and believe all will be quality resources for you. 16Personalities […]